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Mother and Child - An Essay

Essay about mother and child

WHEN YOU WERE A KID
She feed you, but in return to her... you spew out your food and dropped the plate.
She bathes and cleanse your body, but in return to her... you always bed-wetting.
She guide you how to walk, but in return to her... you run away when she call you.
She teach you A-B-C-1-2-3, but in return to her... you scribbling the wall.
She buy beautiful clothes for your, but in return to her... you soiled her clothes.
She accompany you go to kindergarten, but in return to her... you shouted NO.. NO..!
She paid your study, but in return to her... you often absent.
She forbid you to watch TV show for adult, but in return to her... you wait until she go out and quietly turn on the TV.

WHEN YOU WERE A TEENAGER
She paid your sweet seventeen party, but in return to her... you continue the party until daybreak.
She drive you go to school but... you feel shy when the car stop in front of school gate.
She asked when you came late at night, but in return to her... you said "Oh Mommy, I'm grown-up now, don't worry".
When you married, she give full support, but in return to her... after married you rarely visit her.
When she has been old and need care... you send her to the nursing home because of troublesome.

And until ONE DAY... God call her and she gone calmly. I am sure at one time you will remember all beautiful memory when she be with you and the matters that you have not fulfilled to her. Will you crying? Oh, I said you're LATE !!! because your mother cannot sense your love any more, FOREVER !!!
"Don't cry, my child", she said from heaven.

Comments

  1. Anonymous24/8/08

    "Wisdom is found in the old, and discretion comes with great age..."
    -The Old Testament.

    Children also grow up and become mothers and fathers. The wisdom that you wish for them has to come to them with their own experiences. Like it has for you.

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  2. I enjoyed your post. Thanks. Peace -- jb

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  3. An eye opener to the young generations... Thanks for sharing this one, a very good tribute to Mothers!

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  4. Thank you very much to Rummuser, Jeff Baker, Chubskulit for commenting this post.

    i write this when i suddenly remembered my mother. So i write my conscience. Now she was in the Surabaya city, far from me.
    Love you all.

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  5. Anonymous26/8/08

    we all realize it when we become parents c: thanx to our moms c: cute baby you got there c:

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  6. Anonymous26/8/08

    i liked your post, yes she is the only one due to whome we are livimg a beautiful life. she is more than a god for me. my mother.

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  7. is that yr baby? so cute... yes, i agree with u, our kids are our responsibilities and we as parents should nurture them till they are old enough to be by themselvels.. i wonder that would be.. :)

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  8. To: Iceah
    Thank you very much and welcome.

    To: Amit
    May the happiness always be with your family. Thanks for commenting here.

    To: Reanaclaire
    Yes, that is my daughter. She is my biggest wealth.

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  9. I see that happen all too often. That's why I see and talk to my mother every day. I know what all she gave up for me. I only hope my children also know the same.

    Interesting you have a Sweet Seventeen party there. Here in the States, it's a Sweet Sixteen. :)

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  10. To: Gretchen
    In fact, we don't have the culture of sweet-seventeen. We adopted the western culture. Thanks for sharing, so i know there is Sweet Sixteen.

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  11. Thank you, Yendoel.

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  12. Anonymous11/11/08

    Good for people to know.

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  13. Anonymous9/12/08

    Mas Tikno, may be the parent love will be ours with it's own way. Thanks for commenting the same subject I had. I wrote that article when I realized that I couldn't give may parents the same affection & love like the way they gave to us.

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  15. Anonymous23/12/08

    ooow....very touching...thanks mas Tikno...

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  16. Anonymous23/12/08

    Happy Mother's Day. It's 24 hours job, no pay, no day off, seldom apreciated and impossible to resign. But I still proud be a mother. Blessed you..........

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  17. dear Tikno,
    I also sorry to know your brother condition. And i know that he unreplaceable at your life...
    yes the love of mother is really deep. It's could not be compared with our love to her.
    anyway Tikno, tomorrow morning i wanna go to Jakarta. Hope we can chat again together...see you

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  18. Dear Audy, thank you.
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    Dear Ika, your comment are very interesting.
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    Dear Niar, take care of yourself. Give me a message if you have been in Jakarta. I want to know if you are okay. Remember to catch your dream.

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  19. very touching indeed..sometimes we do not treasure what we have till its too late..

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  20. TT Tan,
    Thanks for the kind words.

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  21. Thank you for sharing, may we all learn to treasure the people that surround us with love and support.

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  22. Fibro Viv, you are right.... as long as they are still with us. That's nothings if after they are "gone".

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  24. Anonymous18/5/12

    Mother is the best person we ever had in our life. No matter what we do, no matter what we have done to her..She always love us more than her own life. This is very touching post. I like it so much and hopefully you'll like about Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia which i have join too. It's about how to get bonuses and discounts while you shop in Alfamart. One more thing is from yamaha which has just released their newest Motor Matic Injeksi Irit Harga Murah YM Jet-Fi as they claimed to be the most efficient motorcycle. This is truly great. thanks and you are awesome.

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